Now that you've set up the perfect online profile and put away the camera,
what do you do now?
Do you just sit back and wait for others to find you, or do you go out and
look for other fun swingers? I guess that's up to you for the most
part, but in my opinion, why wait when you can find some action now?
Narrowing The Field
If there was ever any doubt that swinging wasn't popular, then the number
of profiles on swinger dating websites should be the definitive way to stop
that argument.
When you choose one of the bigger swinger dating sites, you can find hundreds
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Although swinging is a great way to branch out from your ordinary experience,
there are some things that you want to keep in mind to keep everyone happy
and safe.
NO means NO
If you are in a swinging experience and another person decides that they don't
want to participate or changes their mind about something that they are doing,
you must listen to them. This is not a game of pushing limits, so if
someone is uncomfortable, then you must be ready to stop. They might
not be ready for something just yet. Maybe they will be later.
Respect
Being in a sexual experience or situation with someone else
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If you think that you're aroused by the mere idea of swinging, just
wait until you jump in. Reading doesn't do swinging justice at
all-only feeling and touching make for truly believing.
As you probably already know, soft swinging is the first attempt at swinging
for many couples and interested folks. Heck, you may have already tried
soft swinging without even realizing it.
You had a few too many drinks, got a little friendly with someone's
husband. And you knew darn well that it wasn't about love or being
unfaithful to your partner, it was about animal lust.
Maybe he smelled just right or she was wearing
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Can a Marriage Become Stronger by Swinging?
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While divorce rates rise and marriage fall apart on a daily basis, an outside observer of swinging might think that it helps to cause marriage crises. This is certainly not the case. Swinging, through numerous individual interviews and case studies, has been shown to help strong marriages become even stronger.
Strength in numbers?
When you talk to an experienced swinger, you will find that they didn't want to try swinging for the sex, but for the experience. Their marriages may have been plenty strong going into the whole adventure, but one or both of the partners just wanted a little something different and new. They didn't love each other any less, but rather, they wanted to add another dimension to their relationship. And by making the decision together, they created a way to communicate with each other more openly and honestly, leading to overall better communication skills (outside sexual matters).
Why swinging isn't cheating
One of the main concerns that couples struggle with is their mindset of thinking that swinging is cheating on their partner in some way. And this can be a deterrent for a while to act upon this fantasy. What makes swinging different from cheating is that the two of you have decided to share this experience together. There's nothing secretive about being with this other person. You know exactly what your partner is doing and you've talked about why. You're hoping to share this new adventure with your partner-together. And this is why being open will make swinging even better for the both of you.
Saving a weak marriage
A counselor is the best way to save a weak marriage, not swinging. If you are having insecurities about your relationship, or just aren't communicating as well, swinging is not a good fix. Swinging is best experienced by a couple that us able to talk to each other and share with each other. And if problems should come up in the swinging process, then the couple must be able to work through them. And weak marriages are usually a sign of not being able to talk through certain issues.
Don't complicate your relationship more. Work things out with each other before you add swinging to the already volatile mix. Swinging can provide just the 'kick' that your strong marriage needs, but it will not solve problems that are already present. If you're able to work through issues as a couple and just want to experience more in the area of sex and fantasy, then swinging could be the answer to your dreams.
And there are plenty of places to research swinging. Bookstores so carry books on swinging and your local sex shops can direct you to local connections. Online swinging dating sites and other information sites (www.swingingresources.com) can also answer any questions that you might have.
Start the open and frank discussions now to enjoy swinging in every way that you can. Doing the research together may also lead to some fun on your own.
What may surprise you is that swingers actually report a better body image
from the experience. By putting themselves 'on display' for
someone other than their partner, their image of their self changes dramatically.
But why is this?
All Shapes And Sizes
If you're going a lot of swingers clubs or events, then you're
bound to realize that no one is perfect. In fact, you'll see that
many swingers are just your normal, everyday people.
We're not all models or erotic dancers.
We're teachers and retirees, factory workers and secretaries. We're
just your everyday people who like to enjoy swinging.
And by looking around and realizing that anyone and everyone can be beautiful,
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Deciding to swing can be an interesting conversation to have for a couple. You
might feel awkward or nervous about what the other person will say to you.
But what if they say yes? What if they say they've been thinking
about it too?
Well, it's time to figure out what those thoughts will mean with your
new friends. We'll start out with a private conversation and then
move onto talking out fantasies with another couple.
One On One
As a couple that wants to try swinging, you need to be very clear about the
things that will be 'okay' to do and the things that will not. Of
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When it comes to finding someone that you feel comfortable with, you usually
take your time, right? Well, when it comes to wife swapping, that same
train of thought applies.
There are certain factors that you should consider and weigh heavily as you
choose someone to swing with:
Honesty
You need to find people that are going to be honest with you. These
are people that tell you what their needs are, what they do not like, and what
their fantasies are.
You want to see all of their cards before you play any games.
If you should catch them in a lie, then you will need to figure out if they
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