If you've already been to the first base of swinging, then let's
go ahead and hit that home run. After weeks, maybe even months of slow,
soft swinging, you've gotten comfortable and you're ready to go.
Have you and your partner talking about what's okay to do and what isn't?
A Few Basic Rules
Each couple will be different in determining the rules of play when hard swinging,
but here are some things to keep in mind or try for your selves.
Talk about your fantasies. Is your husband into watching two women,
or are you ready to see your husband pleasure someone else? What do you
really want to play
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So, you've decided that swinging is an option for you and your partner. You've
looked at the information online or pored over books and done some research
as a couple. What do you do now?
How do you meet another couple to explore swinging in an up close and personal
way?
Finding the perfect fit
Being honest with each other as a couple will help you to determine what you
want from your swinging experience. Are there certain fantasies that
you'd like to enjoy together or separately?
Knowing exactly what you want will help to map out a lit of things that you're
looking for in another couple. Finding a
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If you're looking to talk someone into couples swapping with this article,
you can go ahead and forget about it. Weaker relationships can not be
helped by swinging, but solid relationships can be made stronger.
If you're in a weaker relationship in which you fight or lack communication
skills, then you may not want to attempt couples swapping just yet.
Work on your relationship first before adding something else to the turbulent
pot. Going to a marriage or couples counselor can be the best way to
get your communication back on track.
And as for the rest of you that are jumping into couples swapping from a strong
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FINDING A SITE YOU LIKE
You are just 1 click away from pictures of naked swingers who live near you - click here to see them!
When it comes to lounging around the Internet, you might find that your long hours could be better spent looking for a swinging good time.
No longer do you have to meet up in person to find other swingers and have that awkward conversation of do you or don't you, but you can put in some information, sometimes for free, and find other people who are looking to swing.
It's just so darn easy.
So Many Possibilities
The hardest thing about finding swingers online is when you type in 'swinging online' and find that there are hundreds of thousands of place to look at. And there are dating services designed to hook up any arrangement of swingers.
Maybe you're a heterosexual couple looking for another couple. Maybe you're a lesbian couple looking for a couple or a single man. Or maybe it's the other way around.
If there's a combination that can be dreamed of, there's a service to get you all together.
And if you're into any fetish in particular, then you can find that too.
How Do You Choose?
I went with the close-your-eyes-and-point approach at first, but that didn't work out too well.
So let's talk about the finer points of an online dating site.
This might sound a bit superficial, but listen to the reasoning first. I pick out sites based on the quality of the pictures on it. Not that I like to just look at pictures (well, I do), but I can tell how serious the site is when their members take the time to send good pics.
I've also found that the sites that take the time to explain how every works are great too.
If they have someone to answer your questions either via phone or email, then you know that they really want you to be successful. And a company that wants you to be successful is always a good sign.
Granted, you will be paying for such help, but it will be worth it. They know what they're talking about.
Should You Pay To Date Online?
This really isn't a question anymore because you don't have the choice in most cases. If you want to talk with other couples, then you will have to pay up.
If you're okay with just looking at pictures, then you can do that without paying each month.
When you pay, you get to e-mail, have real time chats, and even video chats (which can be super hot when you're a long distance from each other or are just starting out).
Most of the sites have monthly fees that aren't too terrible. And they also have a trial period in most cases, so you can get the hang of it without forking over too much money.
My advice? Take advantage of the trial period on a site, and if you like it, sign up. If you don't, make sure to cancel your membership and move onto the next.
Even if you don't find a great couple, you will be able to access all of the pictures and advice articles.
What may surprise you is that swingers actually report a better body image
from the experience. By putting themselves 'on display' for
someone other than their partner, their image of their self changes dramatically.
But why is this?
All Shapes And Sizes
If you're going a lot of swingers clubs or events, then you're
bound to realize that no one is perfect. In fact, you'll see that
many swingers are just your normal, everyday people.
We're not all models or erotic dancers.
We're teachers and retirees, factory workers and secretaries. We're
just your everyday people who like to enjoy swinging.
And by looking around and realizing that anyone and everyone can be beautiful,
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If you're anything like me, I'm sure that you've found many
other ways that the Internet can enhance your sexual imagination. Maybe
you've even found the erotic stories about swinging and wondered if you
would enjoy living the swinging lifestyle. It sounds like fun and it's
kept you wanting more. But you're a bit nervous.
Maybe you've never done anything like swinging, never branched out beyond
your partner. Now's the perfect time.
Getting on
Let's assume that you've already talked to your partner about
swinging and it sounds like something that you're both interested in. What
do you do now?
If you have access to the Internet, you
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When it comes to finding someone that you feel comfortable with, you usually
take your time, right? Well, when it comes to wife swapping, that same
train of thought applies.
There are certain factors that you should consider and weigh heavily as you
choose someone to swing with:
Honesty
You need to find people that are going to be honest with you. These
are people that tell you what their needs are, what they do not like, and what
their fantasies are.
You want to see all of their cards before you play any games.
If you should catch them in a lie, then you will need to figure out if they
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