While divorce rates rise and marriage fall apart on a daily basis, an outside
observer of swinging might think that it helps to cause marriage crises. This
is certainly not the case. Swinging, through numerous individual interviews
and case studies, has been shown to help strong marriages become even stronger.
Strength in numbers?
When you talk to an experienced swinger, you will find that they didn't
want to try swinging for the sex, but for the experience. Their marriages
may have been plenty strong going into the whole adventure, but one or both
of the partners just wanted a little something different and new. They
didn't love
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To me, the definition of swinging is pure fun and excitement, but let's
dispense with the nitty gritty.
Swingers don't wear signs or get tattooed to show their off-hours activities. In
fact, you may not recognize someone who swings at all. Some couples have
reported going to swingers clubs, only to run into their next door neighbors
What we look like
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes and genders. We can be heterosexual,
homosexual, or bisexual. There really aren't any restrictions. The
only limitations are those of your creativity.
If you want some better statistics, then let's talk about the majority
of swingers. Most of us are anywhere
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When it comes to couples swapping, knowing how to communicate with your partner
and the other couple is imperative. You should already be starting out
with open lines of communication, but here are some tips to guide you along
the way as well.
Naming The Place
When you need to talk about something serious, you don't go to a ball
game or to the movies, do you? It really is all about location.
If you and your partner need to discuss something, then you will want to find
somewhere that is quiet and private. The fewer distractions the better. Of
course, restaurants are a nice way to give your
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SOFT SWINGING BASICS
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If you think that you're aroused by the mere idea of swinging, just wait until you jump in. Reading doesn't do swinging justice at all-only feeling and touching make for truly believing.
As you probably already know, soft swinging is the first attempt at swinging for many couples and interested folks. Heck, you may have already tried soft swinging without even realizing it.
You had a few too many drinks, got a little friendly with someone's husband. And you knew darn well that it wasn't about love or being unfaithful to your partner, it was about animal lust.
Maybe he smelled just right or she was wearing something that displayed her best assets
If It Should Happen Spontaneously
The lights are low. Maybe you're at a party with your partner and you've become separated for a moment. You're still fully aware of where the other is, but you just let a moment take you. You've probably already talked about the possibility at this point.
So go on. Let's see where the sexual tension might lead.
A little touch here, a stroke there. It can even be as simple as a long, slow kiss. You close your eyes and disappear in the moment.
And what if you catch your husband or partner out of the corner of your eye?
It's incredibly erotic to see your partner with someone else, even if it's 'innocent' to begin with. Just to see hands that have touched you running down someone else's skin can be a turn on by itself.
Watching can be the perfect way to begin in soft swinging. It's a great way to seduce your self into getting into the action.
Perhaps you just needed a little 'motivation' to get started.
And What If You Plan It Out?
Of course, you may have already decided that 'something' might be happening on a particular evening. You've sat and talked for a while, when the conversation turns to sex.
But planning doesn't make it any less hot or exciting.
Maybe it starts with just a massage of the shoulders or a move into another's personal space.
Now is your chance to go for it. Don't be shy; you know that the other one wants it.
You can go back to your high school days and just make out, or you can take it further with blatant groping and stroking. Explore this new person, what do they feel like? What makes them different from your partner?
But keep it cool right now because you're just starting, just teasing really at this point. You want to keep everyone excited and anxious for the next time.
Your hearts are racing and your minds are anxious for the next time.
But go slow. Wanting more from the swinging experience is a good thing and you want to make sure that you're completely comfortable before moving up the action.
And the best part of slow swinging is that you get to go home with a partner that is just ready to finish off anything that has already been started.
If you've already been to the first base of swinging, then let's
go ahead and hit that home run. After weeks, maybe even months of slow,
soft swinging, you've gotten comfortable and you're ready to go.
Have you and your partner talking about what's okay to do and what isn't?
A Few Basic Rules
Each couple will be different in determining the rules of play when hard swinging,
but here are some things to keep in mind or try for your selves.
Talk about your fantasies. Is your husband into watching two women,
or are you ready to see your husband pleasure someone else? What do you
really want to play
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If you've signed up to be on an online dating site, your profile is
what will give you all of the attention that you could ever want. And
every site will tell you that there are certain things that other couples look
for when choosing to contact someone.
The Pictures
Time and time again, sites and advice columns will tell you that your picture
is the best way to get attention on a dating site.
Yes, this is the time to smile for the camera. Or you can just show
off some of your 'finer' points for other couples.
I actually recommend a sultry pose without a face for a few,
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So you've thought about swinging and it sounds pretty good. Your
partner is interested and you're ready to go. But there's
this little voice in the back of your head that's telling you that it's
wrong somehow or that there has to be a catch because it sounds too good to
be true. Let's talk about what you can get out of swinging, because
you may not know the facts.
Confidence
Confidence isn't just about feeling good about what you look like or
how much money you make. Confidence is about being secure in the person
that you are. Swinging can help you with this. If you're
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