While divorce rates rise and marriage fall apart on a daily basis, an outside
observer of swinging might think that it helps to cause marriage crises. This
is certainly not the case. Swinging, through numerous individual interviews
and case studies, has been shown to help strong marriages become even stronger.
Strength in numbers?
When you talk to an experienced swinger, you will find that they didn't
want to try swinging for the sex, but for the experience. Their marriages
may have been plenty strong going into the whole adventure, but one or both
of the partners just wanted a little something different and new. They
didn't love
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To me, the definition of swinging is pure fun and excitement, but let's
dispense with the nitty gritty.
Swingers don't wear signs or get tattooed to show their off-hours activities. In
fact, you may not recognize someone who swings at all. Some couples have
reported going to swingers clubs, only to run into their next door neighbors
What we look like
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes and genders. We can be heterosexual,
homosexual, or bisexual. There really aren't any restrictions. The
only limitations are those of your creativity.
If you want some better statistics, then let's talk about the majority
of swingers. Most of us are anywhere
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Now that you've set up the perfect online profile and put away the camera,
what do you do now?
Do you just sit back and wait for others to find you, or do you go out and
look for other fun swingers? I guess that's up to you for the most
part, but in my opinion, why wait when you can find some action now?
Narrowing The Field
If there was ever any doubt that swinging wasn't popular, then the number
of profiles on swinger dating websites should be the definitive way to stop
that argument.
When you choose one of the bigger swinger dating sites, you can find hundreds
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THE PROFILE THAT GETS NOTICED
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If you've signed up to be on an online dating site, your profile is what will give you all of the attention that you could ever want. And every site will tell you that there are certain things that other couples look for when choosing to contact someone.
The Pictures
Time and time again, sites and advice columns will tell you that your picture is the best way to get attention on a dating site.
Yes, this is the time to smile for the camera. Or you can just show off some of your 'finer' points for other couples.
I actually recommend a sultry pose without a face for a few, and then add your face if someone is asking. This just keeps the seduction going, and you won't have to worry about running into someone you recognize in the grocery store.
Especially if you reference where you live.
Get out the digital camera and start having fun with your partner. Setting it up on a tripod will be much easier than asking someone to take pictures for you or holding the camera yourself.
Get into some sexy poses and positions. Experiment with a few different kinds of lighting-candlelight, bright lights, and complete darkness all produce vastly different results.
And of course, if you don't like the pictures, you can always delete them.
Wear some fun clothing or accessories.
Make sure that the picture is clear. This is the time to go for quality. Your pose doesn't matter if they can't tell what you are doing.
Being Upfront
Another part of a profile that will get you noticed is how honest you are. And how can someone tell that?
Be specific about your intentions for a swinging relationship. Is this a one time thing, or do you want to explore a longer adventure? Are you into any fetishes or roleplaying scenarios?
When you tell everything that is important to you, then you'll get responses that suit your desires. And that's the point.
It's a pain to sort through a bunch of profiles that don't meet your expectations. And you'll get a vast assortment of replies if you don't reveal the details of your swinging intent.
And you also don't want to get together and whip out the handcuffs unexpectedly.
Have Fun With It
Your profile is a great way to show your personality and your fun to another person. And since they'll just be reading it, you want to make sure that it sounds like someone that they would like to meet.
Be playful. Tease. You may find it easier to write something that is geared to your partner first, and then change it around to talk about finding someone else.
Add in details about things that you have done together or are looking to do.
Talk about your fantasies openly.
When you're writing your profile, take your time to make sure that it talks about everything that you are and everything that you're looking to experience.
You want to make sure that you are finding people that are compatible with you, but this will only happen if you say it right.
Of course, after you've tried a little swinging, you may want to share
your amazing experiences with everyone you know. Unfortunately, not everyone
will be as open as you. If you work in a conservative environment, or
just want to maintain a little anonymity, then there are several ways to go
about it.
If you're going to clubs
One of the main reasons that a lot of beginning swingers try out clubs is
that there is a certain safety in numbers. If you're there
and they're there, then you both are embracing swinging as a lifestyle
or a fascination. And you are both in the same boat
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What may surprise you is that swingers actually report a better body image
from the experience. By putting themselves 'on display' for
someone other than their partner, their image of their self changes dramatically.
But why is this?
All Shapes And Sizes
If you're going a lot of swingers clubs or events, then you're
bound to realize that no one is perfect. In fact, you'll see that
many swingers are just your normal, everyday people.
We're not all models or erotic dancers.
We're teachers and retirees, factory workers and secretaries. We're
just your everyday people who like to enjoy swinging.
And by looking around and realizing that anyone and everyone can be beautiful,
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You have to have a first time for everything, so why not do it right when
trying wife swapping?
Since you're already laid down the guidelines for what kind of events
may happen, you now need the perfect setting to get the night off to a perfect
start.
Location, Location, Location
When you're starting off in wife swapping, you want to be completely
comfortable with the other couple (or single, etc). Choosing a place
that suits everyone is a great way to begin.
Many times, a house or hotel room might be chosen.
I personally don't like the sterility of a hotel room, so I will talk
about being at someone's
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