Changing up the scenery from time to time can make any real swinging housewife
even more excited, so why not look into something like this?
If you're met another couple over the Internet and they're out
of town, meeting up somewhere in between can provide for an erotic and adventurous
location.
Making The Plans
When it comes to any vacation planning, you want to sort out all the details
first. There's nothing like a few surprises to kill a mood.
Start with picking a few destinations that you might enjoy, factoring in your
own separate budgets and preferences. The more private and warm the destination
is, the better, in
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When it comes to couples swapping, knowing how to communicate with your partner
and the other couple is imperative. You should already be starting out
with open lines of communication, but here are some tips to guide you along
the way as well.
Naming The Place
When you need to talk about something serious, you don't go to a ball
game or to the movies, do you? It really is all about location.
If you and your partner need to discuss something, then you will want to find
somewhere that is quiet and private. The fewer distractions the better. Of
course, restaurants are a nice way to give your
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If you've already been to the first base of swinging, then let's
go ahead and hit that home run. After weeks, maybe even months of slow,
soft swinging, you've gotten comfortable and you're ready to go.
Have you and your partner talking about what's okay to do and what isn't?
A Few Basic Rules
Each couple will be different in determining the rules of play when hard swinging,
but here are some things to keep in mind or try for your selves.
Talk about your fantasies. Is your husband into watching two women,
or are you ready to see your husband pleasure someone else? What do you
really want to play
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WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT
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The adventure of swinging varies for everyone, but there are some general benefits that you can expect and should expect from everyone involved.
Still, I have to point out that swinging isn't for everyone, so don't take this list to a reluctant partner to try to sway them. Of course, you may want to leave it out so that they can peruse it at their own pace
Confidence
As a woman, I can tell you that confidence isn't something that comes naturally in terms of sexual activity. We're taught that men are superior in this respect and that we should follow their lead in everything.
When you start swinging, however, you are thrust into a realm of being up front about your needs and your desires. It isn't all about pleasing the man anymore, but it's about getting what you crave, what you've dreamt in your mind.
Your confidence soars as you begin to find that you can be sexual with someone that you're not used to and yet still pleasure them, as well as yourself. Your partner will notice for sure.
Body Image
Although this conversation is linked to women most of the time, let's not forget about our men. While media and celebrity news make us believe that all women should be a certain size, men are equally as judged.
Men see ripped abs and chiselled cheekbones, and quietly think to themselves if they're all that good too? Are their penises big enough?
When you've been with your partner for a while, you may fall into a sense of comfort about what you look like. They love you and that's all that matters. When you begin swinging, that self-assuredness will be tested.
And you'll win in the end.
This other person wants someone different. They've probably already seen you and complimented you on something. Talk about feeling sexually charged and gorgeous-and now you've got more than one person telling you that.
Some women might find that compliments from another woman are the most pleasing, as we all seem to be so judgmental in public.
Better Communication
Not only do couples find it easier to talk to each other before they even start swinging, but afterwards-the floodgates of talking are opened.
When you can talk about sex, sex with another person with your partner, or amongst your group, you can talk about anything.
It will make you more open in the outside world as well. Granted, you may not talk about your swinging with others, but you may find that you can be more self-assured and thus more willing to start a conversation with someone that you normally wouldn't.
Increased Sexual Drive
Of course, I haven't done any scientific research on this, but I can tell you from my own experience that your sex drive goes up-a lot.
It's kind of like the snowball effect. When you get exactly what you want, you want it again, and again, and again. And that doesn't mean that you want to be with the other couple all the time, but sex becomes more fun, more open.
You and your partner never had it better.
Deciding to swing can be an interesting conversation to have for a couple. You
might feel awkward or nervous about what the other person will say to you.
But what if they say yes? What if they say they've been thinking
about it too?
Well, it's time to figure out what those thoughts will mean with your
new friends. We'll start out with a private conversation and then
move onto talking out fantasies with another couple.
One On One
As a couple that wants to try swinging, you need to be very clear about the
things that will be 'okay' to do and the things that will not. Of
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You have to have a first time for everything, so why not do it right when
trying wife swapping?
Since you're already laid down the guidelines for what kind of events
may happen, you now need the perfect setting to get the night off to a perfect
start.
Location, Location, Location
When you're starting off in wife swapping, you want to be completely
comfortable with the other couple (or single, etc). Choosing a place
that suits everyone is a great way to begin.
Many times, a house or hotel room might be chosen.
I personally don't like the sterility of a hotel room, so I will talk
about being at someone's
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If you've signed up to be on an online dating site, your profile is
what will give you all of the attention that you could ever want. And
every site will tell you that there are certain things that other couples look
for when choosing to contact someone.
The Pictures
Time and time again, sites and advice columns will tell you that your picture
is the best way to get attention on a dating site.
Yes, this is the time to smile for the camera. Or you can just show
off some of your 'finer' points for other couples.
I actually recommend a sultry pose without a face for a few,
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