So, you've decided that swinging is an option for you and your partner. You've
looked at the information online or pored over books and done some research
as a couple. What do you do now?
How do you meet another couple to explore swinging in an up close and personal
way?
Finding the perfect fit
Being honest with each other as a couple will help you to determine what you
want from your swinging experience. Are there certain fantasies that
you'd like to enjoy together or separately?
Knowing exactly what you want will help to map out a lit of things that you're
looking for in another couple. Finding a
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If you think that you're aroused by the mere idea of swinging, just
wait until you jump in. Reading doesn't do swinging justice at
all-only feeling and touching make for truly believing.
As you probably already know, soft swinging is the first attempt at swinging
for many couples and interested folks. Heck, you may have already tried
soft swinging without even realizing it.
You had a few too many drinks, got a little friendly with someone's
husband. And you knew darn well that it wasn't about love or being
unfaithful to your partner, it was about animal lust.
Maybe he smelled just right or she was wearing
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If you're anything like me, I'm sure that you've found many
other ways that the Internet can enhance your sexual imagination. Maybe
you've even found the erotic stories about swinging and wondered if you
would enjoy living the swinging lifestyle. It sounds like fun and it's
kept you wanting more. But you're a bit nervous.
Maybe you've never done anything like swinging, never branched out beyond
your partner. Now's the perfect time.
Getting on
Let's assume that you've already talked to your partner about
swinging and it sounds like something that you're both interested in. What
do you do now?
If you have access to the Internet, you
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Why Try Swinging?
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My first reaction to this question is why not try swinging, but let's talk about the real concerns of those that are just starting out. If you're looking for outside reasons to try swinging, then you may want to stop for a moment and consider your own reasons. If you're looking to try something new with your partner, then you've come to the right place.
If you're looking to live out your own fantasies without any regard for the other people involved, then you might want to reconsider.
What swinging can do for you
When you're in a stable relationship for a while, it's normal to feel a sense of longing for something different. It isn't because you love the other person less, but that you are just wondering what the feel of another's skin would be like or how other fantasies might play out. One of the ways to find out if you're ready to try swinging is the manner in which you discuss the idea with your partner. If you're having a difficult time broaching the subject, then you may not be ready.
If you have open lines of communication and a genuine respect for each other,
then you won't necessarily have a hard time talking to each other. Swinging
has helped a lot of already strong couples become even stronger.
By sharing a new sexual experience with another person with your partner's
full knowledge, you may find that you can talk more freely about anything.
Confidence is another thing that's often reported after a swinging experience.
You and your partner can go off and have a wonderful and satisfying adventure,
but still come back to the partner that you love and want to spend your time
with.
Swinging can also show you about yourself and the things that you are willing to try. Many women find that they are more about relating to other women. Of course, men need to realize that living out the fantasy of watching two women together is not something that always happens.
So, settle down boys.
What swinging will not do for you
Swinging is not a cure for a shaky relationship. It might seem like a great way to change up the relationship dynamics and infuse life into your marriage. And it might for a while. But if communication is an issue or feeling of jealousy, swinging can not help. In fact, it may help to hasten the demise of your relationship.
Swinging also does not guarantee that you will be able to satisfy all of your fantasies. If you like to explore humiliation or other demeaning acts, then you are not necessarily in the right place. Much of the enjoyment of swinging comes from being respective of another couple and allowing them the opportunity to enjoy their fantasies as they allow you yours.
Swinging is not for everyone. You may find that the fantasy is not the same as real life, or that the fantasy was enough. Do a little research (www.swingingresources.com) before you dismiss it entirely, but realize that 'no' means 'no' and if your partner just isn't interested, then you must oblige their wishes.
You have to have a first time for everything, so why not do it right when
trying wife swapping?
Since you're already laid down the guidelines for what kind of events
may happen, you now need the perfect setting to get the night off to a perfect
start.
Location, Location, Location
When you're starting off in wife swapping, you want to be completely
comfortable with the other couple (or single, etc). Choosing a place
that suits everyone is a great way to begin.
Many times, a house or hotel room might be chosen.
I personally don't like the sterility of a hotel room, so I will talk
about being at someone's
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The adventure of swinging varies for everyone, but there are some general
benefits that you can expect and should expect from everyone involved.
Still, I have to point out that swinging isn't for everyone, so don't
take this list to a reluctant partner to try to sway them. Of course,
you may want to leave it out so that they can peruse it at their own pace
Confidence
As a woman, I can tell you that confidence isn't something that comes
naturally in terms of sexual activity. We're taught that men are
superior in this respect and that we should follow their lead in everything.
When you start swinging, however, you
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When it comes to finding someone that you feel comfortable with, you usually
take your time, right? Well, when it comes to wife swapping, that same
train of thought applies.
There are certain factors that you should consider and weigh heavily as you
choose someone to swing with:
Honesty
You need to find people that are going to be honest with you. These
are people that tell you what their needs are, what they do not like, and what
their fantasies are.
You want to see all of their cards before you play any games.
If you should catch them in a lie, then you will need to figure out if they
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